I asked him about it and we both decided on a day. Just ask him in case you guys both have different days in mind. Posted October 26, We started counting when we became official. Guest mayva Posted October 27, Posted October 27, Guest PhuongNguyen Posted October 27, Saunders Treye Posted October 27, You're a guy.
Make the decision. Posted October 28, Guest fiojs2 Posted October 28, Guest yellowfishieee Posted October 28, December 6, PM Subscribe If you are in a relationship not married, just dating , how do you determine your anniversary date? Do you go with the day that you first met? The day of your first date? The day you became exclusive?
The day we became exclusive. But we were just friends before that, there was no period where we dated without being exclusive. Whatever date your girlfriend picks? That's the one. We just arbitrarily picked a day the fell within the hazy period when we first started hooking up. Have a casual conversation about it to clear up the confusion. I know it was at around pm when we had 'the talk', but I was on the east coast and you were on the west coast.
So pick a date. And if anything it shows her, or him, that you pay attention to detail and really care about the relationship. We've been together 10 years and never really celebrated any kind of anniversary The day we agreed to attempt a relationship. Last relationship I was in, same as prozach. We picked the first of the relevant month since that was easier for us to remember.
You might as well ask, but of course this depends on you and your relationship; I'd find a guy a bit odd if he wanted to be more precise than "sometime those couple of weeksish".
On the other hand, if you're trying to pick this in order to surprise your s. If you want to measure anniversaries of some other occasion, then you must say what occasion that is, and it will be obvious what date to use.
It's sort of a pick'em. In my relationships it's been the day of our first date. The girl can pick whatever date she prefers. The guy doesn't care. First date if applicable; if not, pick something arbitrary but meaningful. First kiss? First I Love You? First make-up sex after a big fight? First time meeting another's family? We can't remember when we became a couple officially, so we've chosen the day we met, July 4th.
Its a date easily remembered, so win-win. We celebrate our wedding anniversary AND the anniversary of our first date although to a much lesser degree of course. I say it's our wedding anniversary. My wife says it's our first date. Whatever, we have sex on both. Even though we're married, we celebrate the day we met, rather than the wedding anniversary. We started dating immediately, so the day we met seemed like the most significant day to be glad for, even though we didn't become exclusive for several months.
The date you became exclusive is your anniversary Your wedding anniversary is the date you became exclusive for life so after that this date supercedes the previous one. I think I'm with the "let the girl pick" crowd. I wouldn't say that it doesn't matter to me as the guy , but I've found that different girls have different positions on this.
As a guy, if it's important to my SO that it's a particular date - our first date, our first kiss, the day we have The Talk, etc - then that will be the day we use.
If it were truly a choice in the matter, I'd probably go with the day you decided to be exclusive. Hi, I just recently got married. My husband and I would like to celebrate the first month and then the year anniversary. In his culture that's what is done. So my question is this: We got married July 9th around 3pm. Do I count the 9th as the first day or do I start counting from July 10th as the first day?
I mean, if I count from the 10thm then today, July 29th would be the 20th day we've been married, but if I count from July 9th, the actual day we did get married then July 29th would be our 21st day.
So what would be the proper way to calculate the days as far as having an Anniversary? You have to decide what type of relationship you want and what works for you and [whoever] you are with.
It doesn't have to be about spending a lot of money. Most people will appreciate the time and effort put forth in something more thoughtful.
Maybe it was going on a specific hike, and seeing a view that really blew you both away; bring your partner to that very spot! Maybe it is creating a new memory at a new restaurant in town. Whatever you do, plan with intention.
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